Much have been written about the loves of Rizal. There were at least 9, maybe 10 of them–an international cast stretching all the way from London to Japan: Segunda Katigbak, Leonor Valenzuela, Leonor Rivera, Consuelo Ortiga, O-Sei San, Gertrude Beckett, Nelly Boustead, Suzanne Jacoby (or Thill? or both?), and Josephine Bracken. Ambeth Ocampo adds up the body count to 13, with Rizal “serious enough to propose marriage to three of [them] in his short life: Leonor Rivera, Josephine Bracken and Nellie Boustead”, adding “[it] was the last, in my opinion, who was the prettiest of them all” (Loves of Rizal, Inq7.net). The prospect that this child-prodigy of Teodora Alonso was also (my, my!) a regular jackrabbit with a lusty lady waiting in every port of call is enough to spice up stodgy history lessons in Catholic prep schools.
Leonor Rivera, Rizal’s model for Maria Clara, may have been the closest to being the love of his life. Their 11-year romance in letters kept him from falling in love with other women he met during his travels, even if it did not preclude him from flirting with them. Their tale of unrequited love could rival that in Love in a Time of Cholera, where Fermina Daza, waking up to the frivolity of their epistolary romance, promptly rejects the passionate advances of Florentino Ariza and marries the more sensible Dr. Juvenal Urbino. “Leonor’s mother [on the other hand] disapproved of her daughter’s relationship with Rizal, who was then a known filibustero. She hid from Leonor all letters sent to her sweetheart. Leonor believing that Rizal had already forgotten her, sadly consented to marry the Englishman Henry Kipping, her mother’s choice” (from JoseRizal.Ph). Stewing up the melodrama are anecdotal accounts of Leonor Rivera burning Rizal’s letters the day before her wedding, gathering all the ashes and tenderly sewing them into the hem of her wedding gown. “Thus, as she walked down the aisle to marry a man we are told she did not love as much, she felt the pieces of a lost love crumble at her feet” (Love letters to Rizal, Inquirer.net).
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Leonor Rivera (right) with mommy. Notice her dazed expression as mum clutches her cuello while holding a fan like a whip. Mata lang ang walang latay! Aray ko po! |






